Sexual intercourse is a great way to secure intimacy for couples and individuals who seek it. It is also an excellent way to get some sexual pleasure and possibly release some tension and frustration.
Sexual intercourse is certainly a fun activity and can constitute of many actions, it is no surprise that there are certainly less conventional or vanilla routes and themes to take when performing the act. Many of us get curious about these themes and so we start out by exploring it through our lingerie, which is a legitimate way to dabble in the darker and more erotic acts.
However, what happens when you already did that. now you have a sizable collection of kinkier lingerie but with very little guts to proceed. Things are never black and white but there are certainly a few ways to go about it.
Read, yup. I am not talking about fifty shades of grey or other lightly inspired but terribly executed bodies of fiction. Pick up a non-fiction work on light kink and give it a good read. Not only will you learn more about the kink community, but you’ll also be able to better decide what you would like to do.
If reading isn’t really your thing, try watching informational videos on the topic, you get the same knowledge without having to read.
Talk to your partner. Talking and sharing your thoughts and feelings on this matter can make it easier for you to delve into. Remember it involves both of you and so having full consent and great communication is important because staying on the same page ensures that everyone involved is satisfied with the steps being taken.
Get some beginners’ kits. These are great ways to pace yourself and get a feel of the kink you are curious about. Beginners’ kits are often less intimidating with the promise of equal fun. Some of them even come with instructions, which takes the confusion out of usage.